We moved to Idaho from Washington 20 months ago. Although I know that we were lead to move here and it has been a wonderful adventure, I am missing my family. I come from a very large and close knit family. It has been one of my greatest blessings! I love them so much and am sad at times that I can't see them.
Our three oldest children still live in WA as well. I think that is the hardest part! When we decided to move we talked to them and asked what they thought. I made it clear that we would not go if they wanted us to stay. They were all supportive and encouraged us to go because they knew what a dream this had been for me for so long. It was one of the hardest things that I think I have ever done, saying goodbye to them. You mommas know how hard it is to let go of your babies. Even if they are adults.
So, as I said, it has been hard lately. I think the last video that I made for our son Joshua for Memorial Day kind of made me think about how precious life is. (You can see it here.) Even though we are very happy here building up our homestead, at what cost are we doing that. We did move specifically to this area to be closer to my husbands family. Although they are wonderful, I still miss my kids.
Gregory has visited several times and Janie came once which is nice. I haven't been able to see Joshua since we left. My mom recently came to visit recently too! That was super fun! We have all Skyped on holidays which I love! It's better than a phone call by far!
Why am I sharing this though? Well, for those of you who are considering homesteading yourselves, this is something that you really need to consider when you are searching for the perfect place! It is sometimes hard to find it close to were loved ones are living. If you decide to relocate a great distance from family & friends there is a lot that you will miss out on. You may miss birthdays, weddings, holiday celebrations, school plays and dance recitals.... plus just the odd Friday night get together. Can you do that? It's a high price to pay!
That is what has been hard for me. Hubby reassures me that we are right where we are supposed to be and although I know that he is right, it doesn't make it easier when you are missing friends and family. So, just think about it. Doing what you are called to do is not always easy but it is very rewarding! We are establishing something that can definitely benefit our kids one day. I have comfort in that!
I will be traveling out to visit my family this summer and I can't wait!!!!
Give Hugs & Kisses to those close to you!
Tina:)
